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The politics of ordinary affect can be anything from the split second when police decide to shoot someone because he’s black and standing in a dark doorway and has something in his hand, to a moment when someone falls in love with someone else who’s just come into view. Obviously, the differences matter. The politics of any surge depends on where it might go. What happens. How it plays itself out and in whose hands.
Kathleen Stewart — Ordinary Affects

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One of the few memories I have connected to my grandfather is collecting fossilized shells at his ranch outside Austin, Texas.  His family had owned it for generations, splitting it up for the subsuquent sons, daughters, and grandchildren.  My mom, aunts, and uncle will own it someday.

The shells meant nothing to me then except as a way to pursue my dream of becoming the world’s first archaeologist astronaut.  Jurassic Park and Apollo 13 were huge influences on my early years.  I’m sure now that for my grandfather they were a way to make us happy in a way that he understood.  A consummate science fiction fan himself, he always encouraged the naturalist impulse in his children and grandchildren.  

2 years later and I realize that I’ll never really know who he was except by hearsay.  I saw him a few dozen times in my life, although he was constantly in the thoughts, actions, and words of my family.  Somehow I loved that man even while not knowing him.  He was able to impact my life tangentially and in ways no one could expect — from him, through my mother, I also have a penchant for science fiction, the outdoors, news media, and space.

Filling the gaps between the unmovable presence of our world and irresistible force of our destiny is affect.  Love in particular fills our lives with significance and optimism.  It is/was by no means perfect — I still remember the uneasiness of my father in the presence of my grandfather, as my patriarch passively deferred to the other.  Or also when Grandpa was harsh, reclusive, or, well, Presbyterian.  It’s just unusual that this time I experience the structure of love in a way that is pure because intention is absent.  There were no motives, only the time spent between someone too young to know anything but how to enjoy oneself, and another too old to care.

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Many kinds of interest are magnetized to the rhythm of convergence we call love. Because interest brings us there, no amount of pushing out narcissism—the subject’s aggressive desire to reencounter herself through her objects—can stanch the fierce tendency of love to express a desire to know and be known, to have amoral curiosity and incuriosity, to be excited but not too much, to be transported but not too far, and to feel held in the world without having any obligation to hold the world back. Love is not entirely ethical, if it has any relation to desire, which it must, if it is to be recognizable as love. If in capitalism “greed is good,” so too in love the inconvenient appetites must be given their genres.
Lauren Berlant
2011 - A Properly Political Definition of Love in Cultural Anthropology 26(4):683-691 

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We lack such a political concept of love, in my view, and our contemporary political vocabulary suffers from its absence. A political concept of love would, at the minimum, reorient our political discourses and practices in two important ways. First, it would challenge conventional conceptions that separate the logic of political interests from our affective lives and opposes political reason to the passions. A political concept of love would have to deploy at once reason and passion. Second, love is a motor of both transformation and duration or continuity. We lose ourselves in love and open the possibility of a new world, but at the same
time love constitutes powerful bonds that last.
Michael Hardt 
2011 - For Love or Money in Cultural Anthropology 26(4):676-682

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